Organizing and celebrating the holidays can be a stressful time for anyone. This is especially true for the lose living with Alzheimer’s and the caregivers that provide for them. The holidays are meant to be a time for family and friends to come together to celebrate an occasion. For many, traditions are a key element to these events and the pressure to keep “things” the same can easily lead to disappointment, depression and even anger, for both the Alzheimer’s patient and those near to them.

First and foremost, family members and friends will have to be flexible when celebrating with a loved one with Alzheimer’s / dementia. The stage of the disease will dictate many of the factors, such as time, place, size of gathering…. For later stage cases, small adult dinners in a quiet setting would probably work best. The loved one may not remember everyone at the party, but it is important no to badger them and continuously try to get them to remember. It will only lead to frustration for everyone. Another important element to consider are holiday decorations. Keep them simple and minimal when someone with Alzheimer’s is present. The threat of tripping on extension cords or strands of lights becomes greater, especially in the later stages, as well as, decorations being mistaken for edible treats. If your loved one is already living in a nursing home or assisted living community, it may be best to celebrate the holidays there. After all, that is their home. It would ease the stress and insure a safe environment for everyone. Most facilities offer holiday dinners and celebrations that allow family and friends to partake in. 


Finally, there is always the matter of gifts. This, again, will depend on the level of Alzheimer’s that your loved one is living with. It may get to a point where family photos and memorabilia aren’t recognized and may even lead to confusion and frustration. Warm blankets and comfortable clothing are always a good option for someone with Alzheimer’s. Slippers with rubber treads are also a great gift. More than likely, your loved one will get to a point where they wander. It is common and if they are in a secure environment, harmless. However, slippers and shoes with rubber treads will help to eliminate falls and accidents.

By making some minor adjustments and following simple steps, the holidays will continue to be enjoyable occasions for the entire family.

Do you know someone with Alzheimer’s? Do you have suggestions for celebrating the holidays while caring for someone with Alzheimer’s/dementia? We would love to hear your stories.